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Dating and flirting

First dates, apps, crushes and new beginnings.

13 stories
PurpurMagDating and flirting · 4 min

Age gap: a positive experience

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"He told me about investing, I showed him memes. We were both happy." One woman's story of a relationship with an 11-year age gap.

PurpurMagDating and flirting · 3 min

Self-partnered: a follower's story

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One of our followers shares why he chose to be self-partnered and what this way of life has given him.

PurpurMagDating and flirting · 2 min

First relationships: how not to get burned

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A first relationship is a meaningful experience. A few things worth remembering can make it happier and help you avoid getting hurt.

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Ethical flirting

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A professional "Tinderella" on flirting that respects boundaries, toxic jokes, ghosting and why there is no Tinder etiquette.

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A letter to everyone who is single right now

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What if being alone is a gift? A blogger on the pressure put on single people, and her list of guilty pleasures for Valentine's Day or any day you choose.

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What if my friends see my Tinder profile?

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Why being seen on a dating app can feel embarrassing, and three beliefs that might be behind the worry.

PurpurMagDating and flirting · 3 min

What if relationships just aren't for me?

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Together with a psychologist, we look at dating fatigue, disappointment in love, and when they pass.

PurpurMagDating and flirting · 6 min

I've known this guy for about an hour and a half, and I'm 100% feeling that fun single life

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A story about one app bug that changed everything

PurpurMagDating and flirting · 1 min

Love is allowed: how a discordant couple met

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The third comic in the series about how discordant couples live, made with an HIV foundation

PurpurMagDating and flirting · 4 min

I'm always drawn to the same type of man, but I want a family

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Tell me your type, and I'll tell you what you'd bring to a psychologist: two psychologists answer a reader's question.

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What you'd never tell on a first date: a comic

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To draw a comic about a first date, two illustrators went on a first date.

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Who pays?

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Who pays on a date is for you to decide. How to offer to treat someone, how to ask to be treated, and some Purpur questions about money.

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Flirting is...

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Was that flirting or not? The Purpur team shares how they can tell.