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Sex and pleasure

Open, positive talk about sex: techniques, orgasm, toys.

14 stories
PurpurMagSex and pleasure · 3 min

Sexual messages we grew up with

3 min read

A psychotherapist on the beliefs about sex and sexuality we absorbed growing up, and another way of looking at each one.

PurpurMagSex and pleasure · 1 min

How to learn to talk about sex

1 min read

Nine tips from the hosts of a podcast about sex, the body and sexuality.

PurpurMagSex and pleasure · 5 min

Six tools for your pleasure toolkit

5 min read

This may or may not be news to you, but sexual and sensual pleasure is directly linked to our sense of personal power and inspiration.

PurpurMagSex and pleasure · 1 min

Why do I have sex?

1 min read

Eight reasons, from closeness and pleasure to self-affirmation and the fear of being left. Choose your hero.

PurpurMagSex and pleasure · 1 min

How do you warm up when it's cold?

1 min read

Eight ways to warm up in the cold, from a hot bath to sex in socks.

PurpurMagSex and pleasure · 2 min

Dirty talk for those who feel shy

2 min read

Talking during sex: how to start with sounds and simple phrases, and why laughing together is okay.

PurpurMagSex and pleasure · 1 min

Good sex is...

1 min read

Ten illustrated reminders of what makes sex good, from slowing down to laughing together.

PurpurMagSex and pleasure · 1 min

Fears in sex

1 min read

What's scarier: cold feet or running out of lube?

PurpurMagSex and pleasure · 3 min

How meditation made my sex better

3 min read

A meditation practitioner of more than 10 years on how to clear your head before sex and simply enjoy it.

PurpurMagSex and pleasure · 2 min

Sex only with my husband: a reader on her choice

2 min read

A reader shares anonymously why she chose to have sex only with her husband, and how she dealt with other people's questions about it.

PurpurMagSex and pleasure · 2 min

“I want complete love only with my husband”

2 min read

A reader shares, anonymously, why she chose to stay a virgin until marriage.

PurpurMagSex and pleasure · 1 min

Normalize

1 min read

Things we want to normalize, from pleasure in sex to eating in bed afterwards.

PurpurMagSex and pleasure · 3 min

"Not everyone will want to bother with someone who has no experience"

3 min read

A reader is 27 and ashamed of never having had sex, and a clinical psychologist answers her worry about how a future partner will react.

PurpurMagSex and pleasure · 4 min

Gen Z and sex

4 min read

Why does Gen Z have less sex than other generations? In short: for them, sex is one more area of life where it's important to take care of yourself.