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Purpur surveys and our followers' honest answers.

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PurpurMagCommunity polls · 1 min

When do you feel sexy: your answers

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We're sharing your answers about feeling sexy, and they're all very different.

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Why did I agree to sex when I didn't want it?

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Why do we agree to sex when we don't want it? Answers from the Purpur community.

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My kink list: what got ticked

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We wanted to get to know you better, so we made a kink checklist, and while we waited for your answers we shared our team's own picks.

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Why we keep checking on our exes online: your answers

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We asked our followers who still peek at an ex's page why they do it, and here is what they said.

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Do you stalk your ex-friends on social media: your answers

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We asked our followers whether they stalk their ex-friends on social media, and why. Here is what they said.

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What do women deny themselves?

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We ran a big survey for women, and 160 ladies took part. Here are their answers.

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Why we put friendships on pause: your answers

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We asked our followers whether they had ever put a friendship on pause, and why. Here is what they said.

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What did you fall in love with?

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A beard, a penis, curls and a gap between the teeth: what Purpur readers fell in love with

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Sex with friends: what are the downsides?

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We searched long and hard for the downsides of sex with friends, and found (a lot of) them in our followers' answers.

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How your sex now differs from your first time together: your answers

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We asked our readers how sex with their partner now differs from their very first time together, and here is what they said.

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What do you hate wasting time on: your answers

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We asked our followers a Monday question from our game: what do you hate spending your time on? Here is what they said.

PurpurMagCommunity polls · 1 min

I feel sexy when…

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Purpur readers share the moments when they feel sexy, from a loving look to a plate of pasta, dancing in front of the mirror and ovulation days.

PurpurMagCommunity polls · 18 min

Wanting more, saying less: what six years of Purpur polls reveal about modern relationships

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From 2020 to 2026 you answered our questions about desire, consent, money, family, cheating and heartbreak. Here is what those answers add up to.

PurpurMagCommunity polls · 4 min

7 stories about vacation romances

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A bodybuilder from Ethiopia, 6 hours in a hotel before a flight, a full-chest tattoo and hidden photos with a girlfriend

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What you don't tell your partner, and why: your answers

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We asked our followers what their partner still doesn't know about them and why, and here is what they shared anonymously.

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We moved out, and...: your answers

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We asked our followers the opposite of the usual question, how things changed after they and their partner stopped living together, and here is what they said.

PurpurMagCommunity polls · 1 min

Childhood dreams of the Purpur men

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What did you dream about as a child? The men of Purpur answer.

PurpurMagCommunity polls · 2 min

Anonymous broken hearts mail

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We have carefully collected Purpur followers' stories about their broken hearts.

PurpurMagCommunity polls · 1 min

What did you fall in love with?

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Our community shares what made them fall in love.

PurpurMagCommunity polls · 5 min

Anonymous broken hearts mailbox

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Broken-heart stories from Purpur readers. One thing we know for sure: every heart is truly special.

PurpurMagCommunity polls · 1 min

Anal sex: fantasies, part 2

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Purpur readers share their fantasies about anal sex.

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How your friends met your partner: your answers

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We asked our followers how it went when their friends met their partner, and here is what they said.

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Anal sex: fantasies

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Part 1. Readers share their anal sex fantasies: what they'd like to try, what they're still working up the courage for and what they've already done.

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Sex recap 2024

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Our favourite New Year tradition: the Purpur community's sex recaps of the year

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How can adults be friends?

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Rules of adult friendship: tips from our followers

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How to make friends as an adult?

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Where to find friends: followers' stories

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Anal sex: men's stories of the receiving role

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Men's stories about their experience in the receiving role

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Anal sex: women on the active role

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Women's stories about their experience in the active role

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What you notice in porn: your answers

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We asked our followers what they pay attention to in porn and which detail turns them on, and here is what they said.

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Have you ever seen your friends naked: your answers

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We asked our followers whether they have ever seen their friends naked, and under what circumstances; here is what they said.

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What am I afraid to ask on a date?

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Scary, but therapeutic: the questions Purpur readers are afraid to ask on dates.

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What do you ask when you meet someone?

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Your answers about the questions you ask when getting to know someone

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Purpur data: the proposal

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Who will wait for a proposal, who is ready to propose, and who doesn't want a wedding at all

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Sense and sensibility these days

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Purpur data: do 230 Purpur readers need to be in love when starting a new relationship? Results of a poll in Purpur's Telegram channel.

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Why did you break up with your exes: your answers

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We asked our followers why they broke up with their exes, and here is what they said.

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What you'd be embarrassed to admit on a first date: your answers

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We asked our followers what they would be embarrassed to admit on a first date, and here is what they said.

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How you take after your parents: your answers

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We asked our followers how they take after their parents, and here is what they said.

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Talking about sex with your partner is…

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Purpur data: how our community feels about discussing sex with a partner.

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Your summer in one word: your answers

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We asked our followers to describe their summer in one word. Here is what they said.

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What does connection mean to you: your answers

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We asked our followers what "connection" means to them, and here is what they said.

PurpurMagCommunity polls · 6 min

Talking about sex with your girlfriends: weird or cool?

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We asked women from a partner women's community whether talking about sex with friends is fun or weird, and got surprisingly different answers.

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When did you send the most nudes?

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Purpur asked followers when in their lives they sent the most nudes. Here is what they said.

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Who, where and how violates personal boundaries?

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We asked you a few questions about personal boundaries and are sharing the results: a reflection on how it feels, the statistics and your answers.

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What do you remember most vividly from your wedding?

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Readers of Purpur and a partner media outlet shared the brightest moments from their weddings, and an illustrator drew them.

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School subjects for a happy life

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We asked which subjects are missing from the school curriculum to teach future adults how to live happily, and these are the ones your answers inspired.

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3 of your horror stories about work and relationships

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We asked you to share your stories about careers and relationships, and what you told us gave us goosebumps.

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Multitasking, sisterhood and dreams of a fan club: what it means to be a woman

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500 women, users and employees of Purpur and a partner company, answered questions about their dreams, their struggles and what it means to be a woman. Their answers are shared anonymously.

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Men and their tears

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Tenderness, pain, a little dog in a reel, tiredness and realizing how lucky you are: men answer the question "What made you cry the last time?"

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How does an income gap affect your relationship?

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Compromises, holidays apart, dependence and being a sugar mommy: the Purpur community's most honest answers about money and how it affects their relationships.

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2025 in review: relationships

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What happened in your relationship this year? Purpur followers shared their stories, and an illustrator drew them.

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My anonymous sex advice to my partner

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Our followers shared the sex advice they would anonymously give their partners.

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Purpur data on money energy

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Fun fact: every Purpur game has questions about money, which we discuss with partners, friends, girlfriends and parents.

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Why we decided to get married

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Purpur followers shared why they decided to get married.

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Grading your independent work

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Top marks from Purpur for everyone. Well done!

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How do you hint to your partner that you want sex?

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Purpur followers shared their sexy hints, from code words to special kisses.

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What your exes taught you: your answers

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We asked our followers what their former partners taught them, and here is what they said.

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The strangest way you found out about cheating: your answers

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We asked our followers about the strangest way they found out about cheating, and here is what they said.

PurpurMagCommunity polls · 2 min

How would you feel if your partner decided not to work?

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The Purpur team answers