Purpur surveys and our followers' honest answers.
58 storiesWhen do you feel sexy: your answers
We're sharing your answers about feeling sexy, and they're all very different.
Why did I agree to sex when I didn't want it?
Why do we agree to sex when we don't want it? Answers from the Purpur community.
My kink list: what got ticked
We wanted to get to know you better, so we made a kink checklist, and while we waited for your answers we shared our team's own picks.
Why we keep checking on our exes online: your answers
We asked our followers who still peek at an ex's page why they do it, and here is what they said.
Do you stalk your ex-friends on social media: your answers
We asked our followers whether they stalk their ex-friends on social media, and why. Here is what they said.
What do women deny themselves?
We ran a big survey for women, and 160 ladies took part. Here are their answers.
Why we put friendships on pause: your answers
We asked our followers whether they had ever put a friendship on pause, and why. Here is what they said.
What did you fall in love with?
A beard, a penis, curls and a gap between the teeth: what Purpur readers fell in love with
Sex with friends: what are the downsides?
We searched long and hard for the downsides of sex with friends, and found (a lot of) them in our followers' answers.
How your sex now differs from your first time together: your answers
We asked our readers how sex with their partner now differs from their very first time together, and here is what they said.
What do you hate wasting time on: your answers
We asked our followers a Monday question from our game: what do you hate spending your time on? Here is what they said.
I feel sexy when…
Purpur readers share the moments when they feel sexy, from a loving look to a plate of pasta, dancing in front of the mirror and ovulation days.
Wanting more, saying less: what six years of Purpur polls reveal about modern relationships
From 2020 to 2026 you answered our questions about desire, consent, money, family, cheating and heartbreak. Here is what those answers add up to.
7 stories about vacation romances
A bodybuilder from Ethiopia, 6 hours in a hotel before a flight, a full-chest tattoo and hidden photos with a girlfriend
What you don't tell your partner, and why: your answers
We asked our followers what their partner still doesn't know about them and why, and here is what they shared anonymously.
We moved out, and...: your answers
We asked our followers the opposite of the usual question, how things changed after they and their partner stopped living together, and here is what they said.
Childhood dreams of the Purpur men
What did you dream about as a child? The men of Purpur answer.
Anonymous broken hearts mail
We have carefully collected Purpur followers' stories about their broken hearts.
What did you fall in love with?
Our community shares what made them fall in love.
Anonymous broken hearts mailbox
Broken-heart stories from Purpur readers. One thing we know for sure: every heart is truly special.
Anal sex: fantasies, part 2
Purpur readers share their fantasies about anal sex.
How your friends met your partner: your answers
We asked our followers how it went when their friends met their partner, and here is what they said.
Anal sex: fantasies
Part 1. Readers share their anal sex fantasies: what they'd like to try, what they're still working up the courage for and what they've already done.
Sex recap 2024
Our favourite New Year tradition: the Purpur community's sex recaps of the year
How can adults be friends?
Rules of adult friendship: tips from our followers
How to make friends as an adult?
Where to find friends: followers' stories
Anal sex: men's stories of the receiving role
Men's stories about their experience in the receiving role
Anal sex: women on the active role
Women's stories about their experience in the active role
What you notice in porn: your answers
We asked our followers what they pay attention to in porn and which detail turns them on, and here is what they said.
Have you ever seen your friends naked: your answers
We asked our followers whether they have ever seen their friends naked, and under what circumstances; here is what they said.
What am I afraid to ask on a date?
Scary, but therapeutic: the questions Purpur readers are afraid to ask on dates.
What do you ask when you meet someone?
Your answers about the questions you ask when getting to know someone
Purpur data: the proposal
Who will wait for a proposal, who is ready to propose, and who doesn't want a wedding at all
Sense and sensibility these days
Purpur data: do 230 Purpur readers need to be in love when starting a new relationship? Results of a poll in Purpur's Telegram channel.
Why did you break up with your exes: your answers
We asked our followers why they broke up with their exes, and here is what they said.
What you'd be embarrassed to admit on a first date: your answers
We asked our followers what they would be embarrassed to admit on a first date, and here is what they said.
How you take after your parents: your answers
We asked our followers how they take after their parents, and here is what they said.
Talking about sex with your partner is…
Purpur data: how our community feels about discussing sex with a partner.
Your summer in one word: your answers
We asked our followers to describe their summer in one word. Here is what they said.
What does connection mean to you: your answers
We asked our followers what "connection" means to them, and here is what they said.
Talking about sex with your girlfriends: weird or cool?
We asked women from a partner women's community whether talking about sex with friends is fun or weird, and got surprisingly different answers.
When did you send the most nudes?
Purpur asked followers when in their lives they sent the most nudes. Here is what they said.
Who, where and how violates personal boundaries?
We asked you a few questions about personal boundaries and are sharing the results: a reflection on how it feels, the statistics and your answers.
What do you remember most vividly from your wedding?
Readers of Purpur and a partner media outlet shared the brightest moments from their weddings, and an illustrator drew them.
School subjects for a happy life
We asked which subjects are missing from the school curriculum to teach future adults how to live happily, and these are the ones your answers inspired.
3 of your horror stories about work and relationships
We asked you to share your stories about careers and relationships, and what you told us gave us goosebumps.
Multitasking, sisterhood and dreams of a fan club: what it means to be a woman
500 women, users and employees of Purpur and a partner company, answered questions about their dreams, their struggles and what it means to be a woman. Their answers are shared anonymously.
Men and their tears
Tenderness, pain, a little dog in a reel, tiredness and realizing how lucky you are: men answer the question "What made you cry the last time?"
How does an income gap affect your relationship?
Compromises, holidays apart, dependence and being a sugar mommy: the Purpur community's most honest answers about money and how it affects their relationships.
2025 in review: relationships
What happened in your relationship this year? Purpur followers shared their stories, and an illustrator drew them.
My anonymous sex advice to my partner
Our followers shared the sex advice they would anonymously give their partners.
Purpur data on money energy
Fun fact: every Purpur game has questions about money, which we discuss with partners, friends, girlfriends and parents.
Why we decided to get married
Purpur followers shared why they decided to get married.
Grading your independent work
Top marks from Purpur for everyone. Well done!
How do you hint to your partner that you want sex?
Purpur followers shared their sexy hints, from code words to special kisses.
What your exes taught you: your answers
We asked our followers what their former partners taught them, and here is what they said.
The strangest way you found out about cheating: your answers
We asked our followers about the strangest way they found out about cheating, and here is what they said.
How would you feel if your partner decided not to work?
The Purpur team answers