Anal sex: men's stories of the receiving role

I didn't prepare. I just understood from how I felt, physically too, and gave my girlfriend a signal that I was ready for a prostate massage.

Both roles are a delight, active and receiving, and combining them is pure pleasure.

I didn't really get much pleasure from the penetration itself; it was more the picture and the vibe that I liked.

The receiving role is great, better than the active one (prostate stimulation is what does it). Add more fibre to your diet, and never skip lubricant. Water-based ones work better for me: with silicone ones I feel more friction on the external sphincter (at least I do), and during long sessions it gets uncomfortable. Before actual penetration it's great to use a plug that's smaller in diameter than a penis. Fingers work too, but there's a higher risk of injury from nails, no matter how long they are.

I like being on the receiving side (a finger, a small vibrator): it heightens the sensations and gives a spectacular finish. That said, men don't turn me on.

I like pegging, but it's quite hard to relax because I'm afraid of various embarrassing mishaps. Still, the sensations are amazing, especially the orgasm.

I nearly passed out from delight during the first rimming of my life. I like using an anal plug during sex with my partner (in me, in her, or in both of us at once).

I've had anal sex in every role, both receiving and active, and it's pleasant. The main thing is having the right lube.