Who pays?

It's up to you to decide

Come up with your own rules. Talking about money is just as important and normal as talking about anything else.

What if I want to pay?

If you want to treat someone and you enjoy it yourself, say so in advance, before the bill arrives. That makes it less awkward.

How to say it? For example:

First round's on me.

I'd like to buy you a drink.

Wanting someone to pay for me ≠ not being able to pay for myself

It's nice both to receive gifts and to give them.

How to say it? For example:

Could you treat me today? I'd really like that.

If someone paid for you, it doesn't mean you owe them anything

It only means that the other person paid for you because they enjoy doing it.

Purpur questions about money

How do you feel most comfortable paying on dates?

Tell me about your biggest purchase. What do you find it hard to spend money on?

What is the main value of money?

What does a comfortable life mean to you? How much money does it take?

Should partners know about each other's income? What about friends?

What number is your dream income? Is there an amount you wouldn't want to go above?

How would you feel if I earned more than you? And if I earned less?

For what amount would you be willing to trade 5 years of your life?