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Let go of your need to be right

Being right is nice, but it isn't necessary: why empathy matters more than winning an argument.

PurpurMagCommunication and conflict · 1 min

Let go of your need to be right

"Being right" vs empathy. You know which one we choose 💜

Being right is nice, but it isn't necessary

We want to be understood and to have our point of view validated. But that isn't always possible.

The harder you try to convince others that you're right, to get that validation from people who aren't ready to give it, the harder it will be for them to agree with you.

You don't need to be right

Try to show empathy to the person you disagree with.

Try to understand why this person thinks differently.

Accept that some people won't understand you, no matter how hard you try.

Agree to disagree

It can be hard, and you may need time.

But it's a choice between acceptance and conflict.

Choose empathy over the need to be right.

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