People keep breaking up with me
I feel like something is wrong with me and that I'm not made for relationships.
People keep breaking up with me
Breakups aren't easy. Even the author of this post, a psychologist, began it with the words "first of all, I want to offer support." So do we at Purpur.
People keep breaking up with me. I feel like something is wrong with me and that I'm not made for relationships.
You are made for relationships
The need for attachment is a natural human need.
**You can consciously choose not to be in a relationship, and relationships can take different forms, but there are definitely no people who aren't made for relationships.**
The fact that relationships happen, even if they end, shows that you know how to build them.
Several relationships in a row ended by your partner? Sometimes it's just a coincidence.
We understand that a string of breakups can cause despair and a desire to find the reason. As a rule, we look for the reason in ourselves.
**But there is never a single reason, and in a relationship the responsibility certainly never lies with just one person.**
Far from all relationships last long, and that's completely normal.
But you can analyze your experience to understand whether there are any factors you can influence.
Ask yourself:
- Did you feel good in these relationships?
- Did you want them to continue? Did you feel ready for a new relationship?
- Were you able to tell your partners what matters to you, what you want, and how you see the relationship?
