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What are ART and U=U: the story of one serodiscordant couple continues

Purpur asked friends from an HIV foundation to explain what a serodiscordant couple is and how they live. Spoiler: almost like any other couple.

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What are ART and U=U: the story of one serodiscordant couple continues

What are ART and U=U, or the continuation of one serodiscordant couple's story 💜

Purpur asked our friends at an HIV foundation to explain what a serodiscordant couple is and how they live.

Spoiler: almost the same as all other couples, just with their own important rituals and traditions. A positive HIV status does not affect a relationship, and certainly not the level of mutual understanding in it.

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This is the second part of the story about this couple.

An ordinary life together

These two are a serodiscordant couple* and they love each other.

Together they live the most ordinary life.

*One partner's HIV status is positive, and the other's is negative.

Taking ART every day

An important part of the HIV-positive partner's life is taking ART (antiretroviral therapy).

It has to be done consistently and at a set time.

Undetectable = untransmittable

The HIV-negative partner knows that when their partner takes ART as prescribed, the viral load drops to an undetectable level, which means the virus cannot be passed on.

  • And we'll get a dog too...
  • But I'm allergic...
  • Then one more cat...
  • And we'll grow some seedlings
  • And take a trip to the sea

This principle is called U=U:

undetectable = untransmittable.

A strict daily routine

To keep the viral load undetectable, the HIV-positive partner sticks to a strict daily routine

9:00 wake up

9:30 run

12:30 take ART

14:20 lunch

18:30 date with my partner ♡

and leads a healthy lifestyle

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